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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2017 13:07:36 GMT
I haven't officially bonded to anybody yet, so I don't really know of the pros and cons, but maybe those with more experience can describe what it's like?
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wizardmon15
Beginning Tamer
Posts: 44 
Partner(s): Wizardmon
Crest(s): Light
What are you?: DigiDestined
Pronouns: She/Her
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Post by wizardmon15 on Feb 21, 2017 21:09:16 GMT
Well, it's most likely different for everyone, but here's my view of it: Pros- someone I can talk to
- someone I can hang out with
- shares *most* of my points of view
- I don't feel lonely
- It gives me a reason to AP to the Digital World
Cons- I can't see them all the time
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thatkeithdude
Red
im the red paladin and im gay
Posts: 32
Partner(s): Phascomon
Crest(s): Loyalty, Hope and Passion
What are you?: Tamer
Pronouns: Any
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Post by thatkeithdude on Feb 21, 2017 22:01:19 GMT
Pros:[/i] lonely - someone i can always bother to enjoy things with [/ul] Cons:[/i] to my partner - INVASION OF TOTAL PRIVACY SOMETIMES >:0 - i can barely see Red so it isn't always like she's there orz [/ul]
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Garnet
Bronze Tamer
Posts: 65
Partner(s): Patamon & Dorumon
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Post by Garnet on Feb 21, 2017 23:30:33 GMT
Pros:
- A friend you know won't betray you because you're bound together by destiny.
- Someone to speak to you telepathically and share emotions as communication when you're too tired or nonverbal to speak externally.
- The times when your communication is good and your stress is low and you can just lay down together and feel the string tying you together pulsing strong.
Cons:
- Since they borrow from your energy when they evolve you can get really tired when they're fighting or staying in Mega form.
- Sometimes being stressed can worsen ability to connect to the metaphysical which means sometimes months or years without any contact.
- Worry that someday they're going to get killed and your lack of communication is going to have you not even knowing that they died.
- If they're ever in a high-stress situation that emotion might leak to you which can cause a lot of anxiety especially if you can't do anything to help them.
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gorgon
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new site who dis
Posts: 49
Crest(s): Darkness
What are you?: Tamer
Pronouns: She, Her, Hers
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Post by gorgon on Feb 22, 2017 3:54:39 GMT
Pros:
★ Feeling of being complete. Like, your whole other half is with you.
★ Being able to get a second opinion when needed.
★ Getting some well needed advice, and sometimes even a some tough love when needed.
★ Caym's been able to talk me down from panic attacks before.
★ Being connected through the soul, you feel everything. You share everything, and even communicate with sometimes little to no effort.
★ Tbh it's kind of indescribable, the feeling?
Cons:
★ Even though he's here, he's not physically here. Sometimes that's worse than being alone.
★ If he gets injured badly and needs to revert, I feel it and hurt as well.
★ That being said, sharing energy is also sometimes not a good thing.
★ If I'm in a bad head space, that effects him too.
★ I'm terrified something will happen to him, and there was a period of time I refused to let him fight anything.
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Jagamon
Green
Posts: 14 
What are you?: Other
Pronouns: He/Him/They
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Post by Jagamon on Mar 27, 2017 13:08:59 GMT
Pros:
- Amazing friendships
- Chance for interesting perspectives on things
- That connection does tend to leave you feeling like there's always someone there for you, even when you feel most alone
- Having someone who knows about all of the stuff you've gone through and has been pretty much with you the whole way through it.
Cons:
-Not just being tired, but being sick can also mess with your ability to pick up on the connection/bonds
-Sometimes you don't know if your random anxiety is yours or theirs because of the way that either party experiencing such will kind of echo chamber
-Lack of them being around physically is kind of saddening, especially when they want to help you in ways that their current state won't allow them to.
-Death is a very real concern with these guys. One I don't like to think about as a possibility tbh. |
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Post by canalave on Jan 24, 2018 3:19:26 GMT
It's interesting so many of you mentioned having physical problems impede on your bond, which I've experienced, too...it seems to wok on both ends. When my partner isn't okay, I'm not okay. And when I'm not okay, it's hard to contact my partner, usually.
I would just chock this up to them...y'know, just being in our heads...but I'm really not entirely sure, since I've had so many physical experiences. And the feeling, just the raw emotion, is enough to know it's real to me...real to us.
Anyhow, pretty much the downsides and upsides, I agree with what others have said. Sorry for not adding much, but I mostly just wanted to mention about that part, since I've really been have a difficult time lately, because of worrying so much about stuff my partner(s) don't give a damn about...haha. It's all but severed our connection, and left me feeling either in a panic or depressed... I know it's not anything physical, either...been checked so many times by all sorts of doctors. But it's nothing like that. That's how I know that it's a problem in me, in my very soul, that I must fix. And I will. But it's a steep climb.
Anyways, sorry for the ramble. Resume thread! XP
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